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Biz Series - How to Network with Successful People

Today I’d like to talk about how to make friends with people who are older and more successful than you. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have friends who are your equals. But It is important that you network with people who are way ahead of you in life…

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As a Man You Have to Compete from a Healthy Place to Win in Life

We are not that different from other social mammals. In biology, there’s a concept called the “dominance hierarchy”. It is a form of animal social structure in which a linear or nearly linear ranking exists, with each animal dominant over those below it and submissive to…

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Don’t Worry About Being a Minority Guy, Worry About Being a Man

Fuck worrying about being Asian. Work on yourself as a man. If you are being an attractive man, you will get enough girls to have a great dating life and all these racism, stereotypes, and geopolitics won’t even matter anymore. And any Asian guy can be attractive if he does the work.

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It’s Ok to be Nice to People, But You Have to Do This Also

You can be a strong, capable, and confident version of yourself who’s genuinely trying to give value to the people around you, who’s genuinely kind to people in need, and who’s not afraid of having an aggressive/dark side. But the key difference is you are being good to people out of your own choice.

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How to Value Yourself and Set Boundaries When Messaging Girls

I need to stress this one more time. This is not a manipulative thing you do, this is not an act. This is the way you have to BE when interacting with women. If she’s nice to you, be nice, be a gentleman and show her a great time. But if she acts like a brat…

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