Don’t Worry About Being a Minority Guy, Worry About Being a Man
I have to head to a photo shoot in a bit but just wanna quickly write something for you before my work.
I noticed that a lot of Asian/Brown guys I know in real life and online seem to think the only reason they are not getting the respect, girls, and success they want is that they are minorities and are being victimized by racism.
I’m not saying this isn’t true to some extent. And I used to think like that too.
When I was 22, I was 30 lbs overweight, I didn’t have any social confidence, I wasn’t even manly enough to tell a girl I liked her, and I was working a minimum-wage job.
Yet SOMEHOW in my mind, the only reason why I was a suicidal loser was that I was an Asian guy suffering from racism.
Do you see the flaw in my thinking and self-awareness?
I can tell you for a fact that Asian guys can become the new “Latin lover” in mainstream culture but you still won’t get laid if you are not a man women want.
Don’t worry about being Asian, worry about being a fucking man women respect and wanna fuck.
When I sucked at being a man, I thought going for FOB Russian and Ukrainian girls would help my chances because they are less racist towards Asians.
Yeah, they were more friendly and nicer to me, but they didn’t wanna date me either because I lacked masculinity.
If you haven’t worked on yourself as a man, you can travel to the poorest country where locals are into Asians and you still won’t get quality girls who like you for you.
I know this for a fact because I tried that already.
And even if some girl dates you because she just wants an Asian boyfriend or she's also Asian. You will wreck your relationship and get cucked so fast.
I fucking guarantee you.
You can't avoid dealing with female nature.
Forget about Asian or not Asian.
When you are interacting with females. The underlying dynamic is still 'masculine to feminine'.
Fuck worrying about being Asian. Work on yourself as a man.
If you are being an attractive man, you will get enough girls to have a great dating life and all these racism, stereotypes, and geopolitics won’t even matter anymore.
And any Asian guy can be attractive if he does the work.
And I know this post is gonna trigger some people because if you agree with my point of view then you can’t hide behind your excuses anymore.
But if you have the courage and humility to really be honest with yourself, then congratulations on your first step to turning your life around.
The best cure for victim mentality is having self-responsibility