Blog
Unfiltered reflections on dating, identity, and showing up real.
Essays and insights to help you drop the mask, grow through the mess, and build something that actually feels good.
On Feeling Depressed - How to Manage it and Bounce Back Fast
Feeling depressed is a very common experience a lot of people go through. Never beat yourself up when you are feeling low, and you are not weak or broken for feeling depressed. But it’s very easy to let yourself go and give in to your emotions when you are feeling down. And that’s a sure way…
Biz Series - How to Network with Successful People
Today I’d like to talk about how to make friends with people who are older and more successful than you. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have friends who are your equals. But It is important that you network with people who are way ahead of you in life…
Biz Series - How to Get High Ticket Clients if You Are a Freelancer
Alright, something a little different today. Forget about the girls let’s talk money. I sell high-ticket photoshoots and I’ve learned a thing or two about attracting high-end clients. But it didn’t happen overnight and I was dealing with lots of low-paying…
As a Man You Have to Compete from a Healthy Place to Win in Life
We are not that different from other social mammals. In biology, there’s a concept called the “dominance hierarchy”. It is a form of animal social structure in which a linear or nearly linear ranking exists, with each animal dominant over those below it and submissive to…
Don’t Worry About Being a Minority Guy, Worry About Being a Man
Fuck worrying about being Asian. Work on yourself as a man. If you are being an attractive man, you will get enough girls to have a great dating life and all these racism, stereotypes, and geopolitics won’t even matter anymore. And any Asian guy can be attractive if he does the work.
It’s Ok to be Nice to People, But You Have to Do This Also
You can be a strong, capable, and confident version of yourself who’s genuinely trying to give value to the people around you, who’s genuinely kind to people in need, and who’s not afraid of having an aggressive/dark side. But the key difference is you are being good to people out of your own choice.
Work with me in person
Working with me in person is the easiest and fastest way to completely transform your dating life. Get in touch with me and start crushing it on dating apps now!