How to Get Your Hinge Profile Working (Even if You Are Asian)
Introduction and my current profile
Here is my current hinge profile and I’m getting good quality matches on the daily. I don’t need to impress you. I know a lot of Asian guys never got good results from online dating and just blame everything on racism. I aim to show you that getting results on dating apps is possible for Asian guys.
I’m using some random iPhone photos my friends took of me for now. I’m gonna get lean and take some proper pics this summer.
But even with my half-ass profile and free hinge account, I’m still doing really well.
What ACTUALLY gets you results on dating apps
You don’t actually need professional dating photos or hire a dating photographer. You can just ask some friends to help you with pics to get started.
The only benefit of paying for a dating photographer is they will be patient with you and have the skills to capture your best moments.
You need to understand that selling yourself online is just like selling products on Amazon.
Except YOU are the product, women are the buyers, and your dating photos are your product photos.
You certainly are not the only product on the market and buyers don’t want nor need to buy every single product available.
Having professional product photos will help.
But at the end of the day, buyers make their purchase decision based on how good the product is, not the quality of the photography.
Sometimes a guy doesn’t get good results on dating apps because his photos suck and don’t do him justice.
But in most cases, you are not getting good results online because you haven’t worked on yourself and women don’t want you.
I was that guy, too. I had so many “high quality” DSLR photos but I didn’t do well on dating apps at all.
Because I looked meek, awkward, chubby, and a classic nice guy. I lacked masculinity in my photos.
I didn’t look like someone women wanna fuck. Do you understand?
It’s not a death sentence though, anyone can raise from the ashes like a fucking phoenix if they put in some work.
How to Build an Effective Hinge Profile
Here is exactly the action plan if you want to build a hinge profile to get you some dates. Anyone can do this if they try hard enough.
Step 1.
You need to work on your haircut, facial hair grooming, and body. Go to a good barber and get them to design a haircut for you. If you just wanna get your dick wet then maybe go for a K-pop fashion and hairstyle for now.
If you are chubby you need to get lean. If you are skinny you need to put on muscles. Knowing how to dress for your body type will help you look better until you reach a good physique.
Step 2.
Understand what makes someone manly and attractive. Masculinity is not one-dimensional. It’s not just about being macho.
Read this book titled “King Magician Warrior Lover” to understand what it really means to be a masculine man if you don’t know where to start.
If you lack masculinity then you need to go through some real pain and real traumas in life to grow as a man.
If you already have some dick and balls then you need to think about how you can show those masculine qualities in your photos.
Step 3.
Take photos to show your personality and look manly.
As for me, I have a bit of muscle mass (not a bodybuilder by any means) and I don’t take any shit. I will fight and die for my woman and family. That’s my warrior side.
I play guitar and I can be sensual and seductive, that’s my lover side.
I run a small business and I’m a leader at work. That’s my king side.
I’m a fairly smart person and I’m very good at photography. That is my magician side.
I have a belly right now but once I get lean I will take some new photos to reflect my physique/warrior side better.
For now, I’m using the travel photo as the placeholder because I have a rugged outfit and a dominant expression in it.
As for the rest, I have a photo in which I’m dressed up (king), I have a photo of me with my camera (magician), and a video of me playing guitar(lover). And a goofy photo to show that I’m not just a boring workaholic.
You can copy my approach and get photos that show you in a masculine way. But there are no shortcuts. If you aren’t masculine then even if you fake it in photos you will not get past the first date.
Step 4.
Get matches and invite them out. The general principles I follow are:
Be Normal, don’t try too hard, and don’t feel like you always have to say witty/funny/flashy shit to impress her
Eyes on the price, your end goal is to get her to meet you on a date, you are not her pen pal
Be curious about her and make her feel chosen because you like her for her
Be unfazed if she gives you bullshit, sometimes they are just testing your confidence, in that case, you just show that you are not emotionally affected and keep talking to her, sometimes they are being brats then you NEXT her.
Match her level of investment. Don’t send her much longer texts if she is wishy-washy. You just try to spit some more game until she’s more into you and starts chasing you more
Have social and emotional intelligence, I can’t teach this in a short article but there are books you can read. And the more you date the more in tune you will be.
I will write more about how to get girls out to meet you on a date in a future post.
Conclusion
Getting results on dating apps is not rocket science. But ultimately you have to be a good mate choice to get the matches. And if you just follow the action plan and execute it with due diligence. I guarantee you will get some nice matches. But everyone has to start somewhere. If you have a long way to go still in terms of developing yourself as an attractive man then you need to hustle and waste no time!
If you want my help with this I can.