Swipe Whisperer - Toronto Photographer

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Looks Matter on Dating Apps and What to Do About it

Some of my clients do get 200+ matches a week. IF they are already highly attractive looking.

A lot of them also DON'T get that kinda result. My clients on the lower end may only do a few matches a day to 5-10 a day.

Ethnicity MATTERS but varies from city to city.

I used to withhold this information because I didn't want to lose potential customers.

I only posted testimonials from top-performing clients because that's what would create hype and sell the photoshoots.

But fuck it idc anymore. Here's the fucking truth.

If you work with me I will give you everything I got to present to you in the best way possible. You will probably get the best possible results available to you at the moment.

If you increase your physical attractiveness you will get better results, but that TAKES TIME AND EFFORT.

Just don't expect to get hot guy results when you are average looking. Sadly that's just the reality.

By no means I'm discouraging you from using dating apps. They are useful tools.

Never be a victim and complain about how unfair things are. I did that for years and that only kept me miserable and stuck.

For example, If you are a chubby Asian dude like me go to the gym and get a ripped body. When I got in shape I noticed a lot more female attention - from beautiful girls of all ethnicities.

Now I'm just too lazy to fucking do it and I will have to live with the consequences.

But it's fully up to you.

Only focus on things that are directly under your control and FUCK THE REST.

And NEVER GIVE UP! Things do get better when you put in the right effort!