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How to Look Good for Tinder if You are a Bigger Guy

Obviously, it’s better to be lean and muscular if you want to have amazing results with online dating.

But in the real world, people come in different shapes and sizes. And not everyone can maintain a low body fat percentage.

So what do you do if you are on the bigger side. How can you maximize your attractiveness on dating photos?

Ok, so here’s the thing,

First, you need to accept that you will be negatively judged for your physique in most cases.

Generally, people will assume that bigger people are a bit lazy and undisciplined.

To look your best, you have to prove these subconscious assumptions wrong by dressing sharp.

There are basic principles you have to follow when it comes to choosing your outfits.

For example, keep your clothing monochromatic, simple and fitting.

Avoid big horizontal or blocky patterns

Avoid baggy clothing. They don’t hide your extra weight and will only make it even more obvious.

Dark outfits will usually make you look slimmer.

Thin vertical pattern can make you look slimmer.

But more importantly, you have to own your body like a boss and give zero fucks.

If you don’t have an “ideal male body type”, the worst thing you can do is showing insecurities about it.

You MUST look like someone who’s extremely comfortable in their own skin on all your photos.

And how do you do that? By having impeccable body languages.

You MUST MUST MUST look confident, relaxed, at ease on your photos. You need to look self-assured and happy!

Dress approximately to your body type, have a great style and own your body like a boss!

That’s it for today, talk to you later!